Pros and Cons of Vibrators
I’m sitting here thinking about the pros and cons of owning a vibrator. I have to be honest, I can think of a lot of pros. First of all, if you want a little sexual release, you don’t have to wait on your partner to either get home or get in the mood. You can just take care of yourself right there. A little self service in the sexual satisfaction line never hurt anybody (unless you believe what your grandmother told you about masturbation and eyesight) so that right there is an automatic pro. To be fair about this, I suppose I’ll try to think of a con.
I suppose one con of owning a vibrator is that if you were to go and use it and its batteries were dead. That’s not really a con as much as it is just an inconvenience. Just pop in some new batteries and your con is back to being a pro. Try as I might, I’m just not finding a lot of downside when dealing with vibrators.
Another good pro is that besides the pleasure that you’ll be getting from your vibrator is the amount or quality of pleasure you will be receiving. I mean, who else is going to know what gets you off better than you? Let’s say for instance that your partner is tired or just isn’t in the mood. Their performance is going to be somewhat uninspired, just methodical. With a vibrator, you can achieve the sexual experience you want without having to worry if your partner is enjoying themselves as much as you are. It may sound a bit selfish but if you take the other person out of the equation then it’s not really selfish is it?
I just thought of a weird con. What would happen if your lover got jealous of your sex toy? If you are spending all your time with a piece of plastic that has a motor in it instead of the person you love because you can’t get the same sexual stimulation from them I would have to say that’s a pretty big con. Then you have some decisions to make. Do you make your lover happy and quit using the toy so much and go back to unsatisfying sex? Or do you just lose the lover and stay in your solitary world of sexual bliss? Yeah, I would say that is a pretty big con right there. You might want to make sure your partner is not going to get jealous over a piece of plastic. In other words, try to meet them half way, or buy them a sex toy to even things out. That way, you can both get what you want out of it. You still get your sexual satisfaction, and your partner doesn’t feel like an outsider in their own bedroom.
I still say there are a lot more pros than cons when dealing with vibrators. Vibrators are designed to give pleasure, and anything that gives pleasure can’t be that bad for you or your relationship. As a matter of fact, lots of people use vibrators and other sex toys to further enhance their sexual desires and wants in their relationships. The vibrator is just a tool designed for you to achieve sexual stimulation; it is not an infringing outsider of your relationship.
So there it is. When dealing with sexual toys such as vibrators, more often than not there are more pros than cons. But still, be sure you pick the right vibrator for you and/or your partner.
